One of my mentors shook my foundation last week - he put forth the premise that we are almost always playing a game with ourselves. It is an unconscious game that comes from whatever wounds we have from our past. There is the deflated game where we identify with our wound and all the ways it makes us small. Then there is in the inflated game where we go all out to prove that we are not the wound.
And let's be honest, we've all been wounded in a myriad of ways so we are likely playing multiple games when we separate from our source, our power, our presence.
Inferior vs Superior
Useless vs Over Achiever
Crazy vs In the Know
And my personal favorite and the one that when I operate on autopilot that I default to; VICTIM vs SAVIOR. I was utterly crushed after we did the exercise to determine what our game is and even at that moment I was still hiding from the truth of my game. It took all weekend for me to admit what my primary...
I am working my way thru Zig Ziglar’s ‘Steps to the Top’ and this weeks topic is ‘Attitude and Inferiority.’ Great! Something I’ve always struggled with. Reading Zig’s words, hunting the internet for wisdom, and just taking the time to ponder when I feel the most inferior I’ve come to this conclusion – Comparison is the thief of joy.
Often, we look around and compare our chapter one to someone else’s chapter eight. In the day of social media, in which we live, this is even more of a challenge, because what we see of people’s lives, is the highlight reel. More often than not, we don’t see the struggle, that goes into accomplishments. Because of this, we can often feel as though we are inferior or behind the ball.
Those of you who know me won’t be surprised that I use music to feel better. I hurt, turn on a song. I doubt, turn on a song. I feel inferior to another’s success – TURN ON A SONG!
Today is the height of the Lion’s Portal AND it’s the New Moon. YOU decide what comes thru the portal.
Today is the perfect day to reflect on what you want the next 12 months to look and FEEL like.
What do you want from your relationships? How can they better sustain you?
How would you like the lover that is money energy to support you as you travel into the future?
Sit in pure appreciation for what you have in the moment - then say THANK YOU and MORE PLEASE because what wants to come to you thru this beautiful portal is better, richer, deeper, and more profound than you can imagine!
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